If you are like many women today, in addition to numerous female friends, you also have (or did have at one point in time) several male friends. For the most part, these are guys whose company you enjoy, but who you don’t date. You hang out with...
David M. Matthews
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Question: I have been seeing an entertainer almost 3 years now. The first year was really rocky - full of attraction and the chase (by him) but I had just gotten out of a 6 year relationship and it was merely 3 years after the death of my father and...
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A few months ago, I wrote a column about three things that men hate. It was meant to illuminate those things that men generally feel negatively toward. However, it may have erroneously created the impression that guys are discontented with their...
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Question: Okay, you self proclaimed guru, might be more than you want to know, but my husband of almost ten years recently ended an affair with a coworker. We're working through that, but- I was truly blown away by something he said to me a couple...
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One thing you can usually depend on with men (other than leaving the toilet seat up), is that you can take our words at face value. Our speech is primarily goal-oriented and our words can be taken literary. One important example to the contrary,...
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Dating is a complicated ritual that most of us have engaged in at some point in our lives. And while many of us may find it awkward, tedious, and even downright frustrating, we nonetheless continue to do it because the drive to connect with another...
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Question: After having an affair 8 years ago, out of the blue the man calls me to tell me he "wanted to make sure I was okay,” and ended the call with "I also wanted to tell you I still love you after all these years." I’m still married and...
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At a time when fifty percent (or more) of marriages end in divorce, it is no surprise that one of the most frequent questions I am asked is, “Is there anything I can do to keep my marriage/relationship from falling apart?” The good news is,...
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In response to a previous column, I received the following letter, which I would like to share with my readers.
Question: My question is very personal, but I read your blog and found it interesting. My husband, believe it or not, says he has...
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Women frequently ask me what guys are looking for in their relationships with the women in their lives. And although they may realize how uncomplicated guys are, they are still usually surprised by the simplicity of my answer. In general, men...
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